How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 01.07.2025 20:41

How does one succeed in life?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

That's it for today.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

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Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Hangs out with loser friends.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Do not set goals—set systems.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Ask yourself:

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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Living to your full potential is a goal.

Making more friends is a goal.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):